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I am a spinster. A library worker. An only child. A movie going fiend. A House head. A lover of beautiful things. A fat chick. A stan for Daniel Craig, Michael Fassbender AND Coco Chanel. I am 41 years old. I am a reader of romance novels AND I adore my Google Reader which helps me to keep up with over 100 blogs. I believe in the words of Cole Porter. A perfect day is sunny, breezy AND a new copy of Vanity Fair in my hands. My life motto is: color&gt;face&gt;size&gt;
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Id: 

ƸӜƷ•°*”˜˜”*°•. ƸӜƷ•°*”˜˜”*°•. ƸӜƷ•°*”˜˜”*°•. ‘Where id was, there shall ego be.’ —- Freud Sigmund
ƸӜƷ•°*”˜˜”*°•. ƸӜƷ•°*”˜˜”*°•. ƸӜƷ•°*”˜˜”*°•. 

The id comprises the part of the personality structure that contains the basic drives. The id acts according to the “pleasure principle”, seeking to avoid pain or unpleasure aroused by increases in instinctual tension. The id is responsible for our basic drives such as food, water, sex, and other basic impulses. It is amoral and selfish, ruled by the pleasure–pain principle; it is without a sense of time, completely illogical, primarily sexual, infantile in its emotional development, and is not able to take “no” for an answer. It is regarded as the reservoir of the libido or “instinctive drive to create”. 

It is the storehouse of the fundamental drives. It operates irrationally, acting on impulse and pushing expression and immediate gratification. It does not consider whether or not what is desired is realistically possible, socially desirable, or morally acceptable. The id is driven by the pleasure principle, which is the unregulated search for immediate gratification.  The id wants what it wants when it wants it. It is governed by primary-process thinking, which is a form of thinking that is primitive, illogical, irrational, and fantasy-oriented. The id is also unorganized and emotional: ‘the realm of the illogical’.

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ikenbot:

Star Trek: Into Whiteness

If...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/38fd958618a11ab367809b674a548484/tumblr_mmyth4PgDf1qbn5m1o2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2b10752b6a4e04b2800b7dc2c9b7ea67/tumblr_mmyth4PgDf1qbn5m1o1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ecda90338cbfa4e2d209b3166f81fe3a/tumblr_mmyth4PgDf1qbn5m1o3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/72c1aa151b19d99428f4d7a028a06810/tumblr_mmyth4PgDf1qbn5m1o4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://raw-r-evolution.tumblr.com/post/50686208569/ikenbot-star-trek-into-whiteness-if-theres" target="_blank"&gt;raw-r-evolution&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ikenbot.tumblr.com/post/50683727412/star-trek-into-whiteness-if-theres-one-thing" target="_blank"&gt;ikenbot&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;big&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.racebending.com/v4/featured/star-trek-whiteness/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Star Trek: Into Whiteness&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/big&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If there’s one thing that most fans of Star Trek will agree on, it’s the fact that &lt;a href="http://www.academia.edu/597924/Gene_Roddenberrys_Star_Trek_and_African_American_Humanism" target="_blank"&gt;Gene Roddenberry’s vision&lt;/a&gt; for the show — and, more optimistically, for human society — was predicated on the idea that all life is valuable, and that the worth of a person should not be judged by their appearance. Much of this was done through the old sci-fi trope of using aliens to stand in for oppressed groups, but Star Trek didn’t rely on the metaphor; it had characters who were part of the ensemble, important and beloved members of the Enterprise crew, who were people of colour. It had background characters who were people of colour. And, here and there, it had anti-heroes and villains who were people of colour … one of whom, Khan Noonian Singh, became well-nigh iconic.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Image 1:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://divorcedreality.tumblr.com/post/49801691644/who-is-your-favourite-villain" target="_blank"&gt;“Who is your favorite villain?”&lt;/a&gt; ; Actor John Cho (Lt Sulu) answers.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Image 2:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;TOS Khan looking at a watercolor of himself. Yes, he’s wearing a dastar (Sikh turban)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Image 3:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;Cumberbatch and Montalbán (as Khan)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;And who is now being played by white actor Benedict Cumberbatch in the new JJ Abrams reboot movie, Star Trek: Into Darkness.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;We’re all cynical and jaded enough to know the standard dismissal when it comes to matters of media representation: Paramount Pictures and most film studios are not interested in diversity or visibility, they only care about the bottom dollar. Star Trek as a franchise is too much of a juggernaut to affect with boycotts. There are too many people who love it, who love those characters and that world, and will go to see the movie. And for some of these people, this devotion to the idea of a future where even South and East Asian men get to &lt;a href="http://en.memory-alpha.org/wiki/Richard_Robau" target="_blank"&gt;pilot a starship&lt;/a&gt; and love &lt;a href="http://amaliasmix.tumblr.com/post/43235800210/sulu-the-swashbuckler" target="_blank"&gt;swashbuckling&lt;/a&gt;, where Black women make Lieutenant on the Enterprise and &lt;a href="http://www.themarysue.com/uhura-spock-kirk-kiss/" target="_blank"&gt;actually get the boy&lt;/a&gt;, will be trivialized and eroded and whitewashed when the most formidable and complex Star Trek baddie becomes a white man named Khan.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;It wasn’t perfect in the 60s when Ricardo Montalbán was cast to play Khan (a character explicitly described in the &lt;a href="http://www.chakoteya.net/startrek/24.htm" target="_blank"&gt;episode script of Space Seed&lt;/a&gt; as being Sikh, from the Northern regions of India). But considering all of the barriers to representation that Roddenberry faced from the television networks, having a brown-skinned man play a brown character was a hard-won victory. It’s disappointing and demoralizing that with the commercial power of Star Trek in his hands, JJ Abrams chose not to honour the original spirit of the show, or the symbolic heft of the Khan character, but to wield the whitewash brush for … what? The hopes that casting Benedict Cumberbatch would draw in a few more box office returns? It’s doubly disappointing when you consider that Abrams was a creator of the television show Lost, which had so many well-rounded and beloved characters of colour in it.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;Add to this the secrecy prior to release around Cumberbatch’s role in the film, and what seems like a casting move that would typically be defended by cries of “best actor for the job, not racism” becomes something more cunning, more malicious. Yes, the obfuscation creates intrigue around and interest in the role, but it also prevents advocacy groups like Racebending.com from building campaigns to protest the whitewashing. This happened with the character of the &lt;a href="http://io9.com/5955239/how-big-is-iron-man-3s-fu-manchu-problem" target="_blank"&gt;Mandarin in Iron Man 3&lt;/a&gt;, as well as ‘Miranda Tate’ in The Dark Knight Rises, who ended up being &lt;a href="http://ihogeek.com/2012/12/29/damianwayne/" target="_blank"&gt;Talia al Ghul&lt;/a&gt; but played by French actress Marion Cotillard. This practice is well in effect in Hollywood; and after the negative press that was generated by angry anti-oppression activists and fans when Paramount had The Last Airbender in the works, studios are wising up. They don’t want their racist practices to be called out, pointed at, and exposed before their movies are released — Airbender proved that these protests create enough bad feeling to affect their bottom line.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;So the studio has now found a way to keep it secret and underhanded. Racebending.com was there for most of the production of The Last Airbender, and were even able to correspond with Paramount Pictures about it. This time, for Star Trek: Into Darkness, their hiding and opaque practices has managed to silence media watchdogs until the movie’s premiere.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;As I said, this racist whitewashing of the character of Khan won’t affect how much money this Trek movie makes. And I’m happy that the franchise is popular, still popular enough to warrant not only a big-budget reboot with fantastic actors but also a sequel with that cast. I’m happy that actors I enjoy like Zoë Saldaña and John Cho are playing characters who mean so much to me, and that they, in respect for the groundbreaking contributions by Nichelle Nichols and George Takei in these roles, have paid homage to that past.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;But all of that will be marred by having my own skin edited out, rendered worthless and silent and invisible when a South Asian man is portrayed by Benedict Cumberbatch up on that screen. In the original Trek, Khan, with his brown skin, was an Übermensch, intellectually and physically perfect, possessed of such charisma and drive that despite his efforts to gain control of the Enterprise, Captain Kirk (and many of the other officers) felt admiration for him.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;And that’s why the role has been taken away from actors of colour and given to a white man. Racebending.com has &lt;a href="http://www.racebending.com/v4/blog/olympus-fallen-white-nativism/" target="_blank"&gt;always pointed out&lt;/a&gt; that villains are generally played by &lt;a href="http://www.racebending.com/v4/faq/questions-about-hollywood-casting/" target="_blank"&gt;people with darker skin&lt;/a&gt;, and that’s true … unless the villain is one with intelligence, depth, complexity. One who garners sympathy from the audience, or if not sympathy, then — as from Kirk — grudging admiration. What this new Trek movie tells us, what JJ Abrams is telling us, is that no brown-skinned man can accomplish all that. That only by having Khan played by a white actor can the audience engage with and feel for him, believe that he’s smart and capable and a match for our Enterprise crew.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;What an enormous and horribly ironic step backwards. For Star Trek, for media representation, and for the vision of a future where we have transcended systemic, racist erasure.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://www.racebending.com/v4/featured/star-trek-whiteness/" target="_blank"&gt;RaceBending&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;THIS IS PISSING ME OFF&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50787963959</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50787963959</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 00:34:02 -0400</pubDate><category>race</category><category>movies</category><category>Star Trek</category><category>ideas</category><category>racism</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/52eaba1de86ae0d829f76f0a4a85a29e/tumblr_mmyygtgNcm1r3gqtzo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/74e916725ebb1b39e1448d0e2095b527/tumblr_mmyygtgNcm1r3gqtzo2_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d566afe0b92e3edc5106355400b7b447/tumblr_mmyygtgNcm1r3gqtzo3_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/338847a3bff5ba96125180e67f4eac57/tumblr_mmyygtgNcm1r3gqtzo4_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50691838409</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50691838409</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 21:08:29 -0400</pubDate><category>sex</category><category>Cunnilingus</category><category>Scandal</category><category>Olivia Pope</category><category>President Fitzgerald Grant</category></item><item><title>Mean Hustle: Why Shonda doesn't get it</title><description>&lt;a href="http://meanhustle.tumblr.com/post/50683709878/why-shonda-doesnt-get-it"&gt;Mean Hustle: Why Shonda doesn't get it&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://meanhustle.tumblr.com/post/50683709878/why-shonda-doesnt-get-it" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;meanhustle&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If Carrie from “Homeland” can fall in love with a married terrorist while she is an agent for the CIA, why can’t Olivia be with Fitz? Homeland is a way better show than Scandal and they are not afraid to take those kinds if risks. That is why they have won so many awards. Shonda is scared. She…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font color="#330033"&gt;↑↑↑↑ All of the above. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50689554563</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50689554563</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 20:33:41 -0400</pubDate><category>Scandal</category><category>Shonda Rhimes</category><category>tv shows</category></item><item><title>About that tepid, lame azz season finale....</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/6760451088ac8ce975f5d83dbaec1240/tumblr_inline_mmyjk4mPMD1qz4rgp.jpg" alt="image"/&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font color="#330033"&gt;
Well the dust has settled. My mind is at rest and I can now see clearly that the road ahead for Fitz and Olivia is always gonna be drama. I don’t mind the drama but I will say that the long drawn out dismantling of their passionate, potent love will not leave them looking their best as characters. I am sad to see Olivia once again choose to walk away from Fitz. This is disheartening. I did not buy the ‘I’m returning to my gladiators’ line it felt hollow and silly. It was like seeing someone being offered steak and lobster but choosing a Rally’s under $5 combo because it’s what they’re familiar with. She is not obligated to return his love but if she ain’t truly feeling it then by all means cut him loose.  The 2nd season finale of Scandal made Olivia Pope look mean-spirited and condescending in regards to the love that Fitz offers her openly and without limits.  &lt;br/&gt;
That’s an odd place to be…the social/political meme has always been ‘White men will fuck Black women but they will never have you in public on their arm’. Here’s Fitz ditching his wife and willing to flee away from it all for Olivia…with Olivia…and she chooses her co-workers/employees/friends over him!?!?!!   Yeah this is not a good look for Olivia Pope…with or without the white hat or long gloves she appears to be temperamental in the face of steadfast love. Who does that? What type of woman takes the love offered to her…pets it with feint acknowledgement and then turns away sheepishly to go do something else!?!? On the other hand…life is full of choices. You choose the life you live or accept. &lt;br/&gt;
Fitzgerald Grant’s love for Olivia Pope is the stuff of songs and folklore. It’s epic in that not often if ever do you see anyone so besotted by a Black woman.  Many are sexually  turned on by Black women but that does not denote passion or passionate love.  Many have pointed out how silly and ineffective Fitz seems in regards to Olivia and dealing with his love for a woman who is not his wife. After last night’s episode…as we watch him go to Mellie and lay his head in her lap as some sort of mea culpa I too have begun to wonder  what’s the point to all this love if it’s going to continue to be shunted and stymied by half hearted attempts at ensuring the greater good of the republic aka the voters of the United States of America.  &lt;br/&gt;
Again I am not saying I will no longer watch Scandal or cheer on the relationship of Olivia and Fitz however, the scene between Olivia and Fitz in the Oval Office lacked something. Watching her place her job/her business above and beyond the love she has for Fitz seemed to be half ass obstruction based storytelling. They, Shonda Rhimes&amp;#8217; scribbling minions, can’t write &lt;i&gt; ‘And they lived happily ever after’&lt;/i&gt; ….. so they come up with something totally the opposite.  I believe if Olivia had said &lt;i&gt;‘At this time I believe we should part. For now. I still love you. And I hope we can be together but for now with all that has happened I need for us to step back and look closer at what it is we are fighting so hard for’ &lt;/i&gt; that would have been a much better and more sane road to go. Instead we got another moment of Olivia being self-serving and high handed with the need to fall on the sword once again to avoid seeming greedy or  amoral.  As I watched Olivia push Fitz away one more time, I thought of the phrase ‘Mary get off the Cross we need the wood’. &lt;br/&gt;
I have ranted/rattled/pontificated enough . :sigh:  I shall spend the summer not thinking about Fitz &amp;amp; Olivia…I shall of course occasionally think about Fitz and his &lt;i&gt;superpower&lt;/i&gt; but that’s about all. This season has worn me out. I’m taking a hiatus. No joke. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50668937588</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50668937588</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 15:32:00 -0400</pubDate><category>Scandal</category><category>tv shows</category><category>President Fitzgerald Grant</category><category>Olivia Pope</category><category>shonda rhimes</category></item><item><title>efflyafterdark:

Folklore time; Dullahan are Irish spirits who...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/eb1697530db820cd7aafc3907f1d6968/tumblr_mkyztzKZDt1rorzmeo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://efflyafterdark.tumblr.com/post/47517075358/folklore-time-dullahan-are-irish-spirits-who-ride" target="_blank"&gt;efflyafterdark&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Folklore time; Dullahan are Irish spirits who ride black horses and carry their own severed heads along with whips made of human spines. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;… I wanted to draw a female one :P&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50652921175</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50652921175</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 10:25:49 -0400</pubDate><category>Irish</category><category>horses</category><category>folklore</category><category>stories</category></item><item><title>arielspeaks:

kronosinasuit:

The Patented Presidential Pelvis...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/06316000778e9702053e56fce837ff5f/tumblr_mmxtxekhWs1s54iyyo1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/38cb054ed7d55f2869208292acc6b114/tumblr_mmxtxekhWs1s54iyyo2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/3b5060e01aed3897576e1d0a408b1079/tumblr_mmxtxekhWs1s54iyyo5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/bc47182e154028961de1f3d4fd29f0bf/tumblr_mmxtxekhWs1s54iyyo3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/043f16e641fd5ef7b9ca461bfbf8cb46/tumblr_mmxtxekhWs1s54iyyo4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a9d9097633c5e8666542f99714b6a2fd/tumblr_mmxtxekhWs1s54iyyo6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://arielspeaks.tumblr.com/post/50652723647/kronosinasuit-the-patented-presidential-pelvis" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;arielspeaks&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://kronosinasuit.tumblr.com/post/50648768401/the-patented-presidential-pelvis-press-the" target="_blank"&gt;kronosinasuit&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Patented Presidential Pelvis Press: The Complete Set&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Every time his face is like “you feel that”. Lol, I see ‘ya Tony. *Boing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50652845853</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50652845853</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 10:24:04 -0400</pubDate><category>Tony Goldwyn</category><category>yumminess</category><category>President Fitzgerald Grant</category><category>Scandal</category><category>Olivia Pope</category></item><item><title>
Superpower
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e2e9c6f2b92271979cf04d53c3ba9d41/tumblr_mmxr0nMT051qhfsg2o1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/19dbcfc2ac93eb426161acaffefd80ec/tumblr_mmxr0nMT051qhfsg2o2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/fc5eeace4178d7793d45a02cbf9e90de/tumblr_mmxr0nMT051qhfsg2o3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/01db10cd4c56576c85c24a5c83ff725f/tumblr_mmxr0nMT051qhfsg2o4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/89ad43d43256aab04830f5453b525c37/tumblr_mmxr0nMT051qhfsg2o5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9abb89472441f2a5ae9ec66c721a0ef7/tumblr_mmxr0nMT051qhfsg2o6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b59f81e51190aa9141c80179fa7e5590/tumblr_mmxr0nMT051qhfsg2o7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a66abe604d495c355db2e1199b5def53/tumblr_mmxr0nMT051qhfsg2o8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;small&gt;Superpower&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50651604973</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50651604973</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 09:55:46 -0400</pubDate><category>President Fitzgerald Grant</category><category>Olivia Pope</category><category>Scandal</category><category>yumminess</category></item><item><title>Searching Her Ways: I'm mad she left the nigga who said his superpower was eating pussy</title><description>&lt;a href="http://nubian-beginnings.tumblr.com/post/50633437949"&gt;Searching Her Ways: I'm mad she left the nigga who said his superpower was eating pussy&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://nubian-beginnings.tumblr.com/post/50633437949" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;nubian-beginnings&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;That shit is just coming back to me now&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font color="#330033"&gt;Like honestly if a nigga said his superpower is eating pussy… and was damn good at it….. I would be more inclined to stay with his ass.
&lt;p&gt;Because how many motherfuckers gon’ say their superpower is eating pussy and back that shit up…… You gon’ leave… girl&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font color="#330033"&gt;For the bolded…pure truth&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50633529958</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50633529958</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 00:53:00 -0400</pubDate><category>Scandal</category><category>President Fitzgerald Grant</category><category>Olivia Pope</category><category>words</category><category>life</category><category>truth</category><category>Cunnilingus</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f55aec52d1d10d767528b24430cb81bd/tumblr_mmxeg8QyCn1qbv37zo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50633375233</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50633375233</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 00:50:31 -0400</pubDate><category>trees</category><category>nature</category><category>art</category><category>surrealism</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9n0anRH9r1rrek62o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50633252029</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50633252029</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 00:48:07 -0400</pubDate><category>fruit</category><category>blackberries</category><category>food</category><category>yumminess</category></item><item><title>justkerryon:

‘What are you doing?’
‘Using my superpower’</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d128cd80dd7fa03826ac3c57afa61dbb/tumblr_mmx7trJxnd1qi7hj4o8_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/67dd7170fdccd38fc3749ddd523c5fb3/tumblr_mmx7trJxnd1qi7hj4o9_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f5c68dd5f213074d8ab1047fffd033a6/tumblr_mmx7trJxnd1qi7hj4o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/2cccd666e2b590e6eaf5d39cb323a5a0/tumblr_mmx7trJxnd1qi7hj4o4_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/0bfb60d903d0e7ffc0b1043c534e0f11/tumblr_mmx7trJxnd1qi7hj4o5_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ab0510412713cf87ceee1a34831c8beb/tumblr_mmx7trJxnd1qi7hj4o7_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e0b387f877639897fc1e991d482109c8/tumblr_mmx7trJxnd1qi7hj4o6_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/857086f70aab3ef747b59abdbb04cf94/tumblr_mmx7trJxnd1qi7hj4o3_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://justkerryon.tumblr.com/post/50623269222/what-are-you-doing-using-my-superpower" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;justkerryon&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;‘What are you doing?’&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;‘Using my superpower’&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50626984505</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50626984505</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 23:08:31 -0400</pubDate><category>Cunnilingus</category><category>Scandal</category><category>President Fitzgerald Grant</category><category>Olivia Pope</category><category>yumminess</category></item><item><title>"My relationship with Olivia is going to spark a real conversation about race in this country."</title><description>““My relationship with Olivia is going to spark a real conversation about race in this country.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Fitzgerald Thomas Grant III “Scandal” (via &lt;a href="http://beaucoupjoliescandal.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;beaucoupjoliescandal&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50626818914</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50626818914</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 23:06:15 -0400</pubDate><category>ideas</category><category>concepts</category><category>race</category><category>President Fitzgerald Grant</category><category>Scandal</category><category>Olivia Pope</category></item><item><title>
Mark Ruffalo | Men’s Journal June 2013 | ph. Coke Wisdom...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ba11cf3b1a96b863ac1307d2ae5e563c/tumblr_mm1i7zOqXc1ql38h8o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mark Ruffalo | &lt;strong&gt;Men’s Journal June 2013&lt;/strong&gt; | ph. Coke Wisdom O’Neal&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50601616517</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50601616517</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 17:26:01 -0400</pubDate><category>style</category><category>yumminess</category><category>Mark Ruffalo</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/019a4c763a91d57143db9b939b71a117/tumblr_mmqlr20xRf1ruyn1ho1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50599036482</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50599036482</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:50:52 -0400</pubDate><category>Azealia Banks</category><category>Black woman</category><category>beauty</category><category>style</category><category>rap</category><category>music</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/501702c34d742078a247d5ce135a7f37/tumblr_mmwry0o90e1qcwnv4o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50598802876</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50598802876</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:47:37 -0400</pubDate><category>Barack Obama</category><category>politics</category><category>America</category><category>yumminess</category><category>Black man</category></item><item><title>diamonds2:

 </title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/3d55c326860d91ff742df6da6cbacea3/tumblr_mi0apd82lw1qghwxto1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://diamonds2.tumblr.com/post/50597557874" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;diamonds2&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://amargedom.tumblr.com/post/50579573671" target="_blank"&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50598725804</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50598725804</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:46:33 -0400</pubDate><category>Alice In Wonderland</category><category>Cheshire Cat</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d26cc220d1503f81ad74e7e692b4be9a/tumblr_meqiluqltJ1ql2pkjo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50598553721</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50598553721</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:44:09 -0400</pubDate><category>color blue</category><category>water</category><category>sky</category><category>clouds</category><category>landscapes</category></item><item><title>
♥ Happy 47th birthday Ms. Jackson (16 May ‘66) ♥


</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b3f66e60f1b5da9e3babfb1ab23fbf19/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/cb97fb435cbc83a2e53f727c1235dbd7/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/ae1063a9df3b8319daa5044e5e1fc0cc/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/828e21c3ae8b1557103f3a96fc16cda8/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a83dc43326caeb3ea52ef3bd4f981a44/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/51baa68f98751018aa4c2b4fece3cd7d/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho9_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/16de3299ca3474af2292ee5b1124f095/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/38ae195c323047e765eb041cf6aa1e18/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/0271327c10068df30e910a8431cf8470/tumblr_mmvyna2Nw01qcvaxho6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span&gt;♥ &lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;small&gt;Happy 47th birthday Ms. Jackson (16 May ‘66)&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span&gt; ♥&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50598460411</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50598460411</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:42:53 -0400</pubDate><category>beauty</category><category>music</category><category>style</category><category>Janet Jackson</category><category>Black woman</category></item><item><title>HOETRY: unimpressed2chainz: bitchwhoisyou: the responses to kelly rowland’s...</title><description>&lt;a href="http://pussyharvest.tumblr.com/post/50564504799/unimpressed2chainz-bitchwhoisyou-the"&gt;HOETRY: unimpressed2chainz: bitchwhoisyou: the responses to kelly rowland’s...&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://say-it-aint-so81.tumblr.com/post/50593646550/hoetry-unimpressed2chainz-bitchwhoisyou-the" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;say-it-aint-so81&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://pussyharvest.tumblr.com/post/50564504799/unimpressed2chainz-bitchwhoisyou-the" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;pussyharvest&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://unimpressed2chainz.tumblr.com/post/50564244332/bitchwhoisyou-the-responses-to-kelly-rowlands" target="_blank"&gt;unimpressed2chainz&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://bitchwhoisyou.tumblr.com/post/50521323731/the-responses-to-kelly-rowlands-new-song-are" target="_blank"&gt;bitchwhoisyou&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;the responses to kelly rowland’s new song are pissing me the fuck off.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;she just revealed about how she was in an abusive relationship and the emotional hardships she went through, which included some negative feelings she had about beyoncé.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;but y’all just wanna be messy and make statuses about how “kelly finally admitted what we all knew, she was salty as fuck about beyoncé’s success”.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;can we stop being childish, willfully obtuse, and excited about turning everything into a battle between black women. i dont understand why people have pathological obsessions with talking about women and jealousy.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;agreed. i listened to the song and read a bit about how difficult it was for kelly to record and release the song; no doubt, she probably felt some guilt for her resentment of beyonce (understandable) before and after the recording of the song, but it is what it is. no one doubts that the aftermath of destiny’s child was difficult for everyone who wasn’t beyonce. and when you consider the songwriting/performance/everything make up of destiny’s child from beginning to that very carefully crafted performance at this year’s superbowl, you understand why.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;kelly rowland has been &lt;em&gt;through it&lt;/em&gt;, as both a dark skinned Black woman in the industry and a friend/sister/bandmate of beyonce. it’s very difficult to call her feelings “saltiness.” kelly speaks about the industry right in the song, how record labels were looking to her for beyonce’s star power and, sensing that she didn’t have it, did not want to hear her “bullshit.” this is also something solange has written and talked about extensively in her earlier songs: having to make that separation from beyonce in order to create music and images that were truly hers.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;and that IS the fault of the same music industry that has crafted, built and supported beyonce at the expense of other Black female artists. i don’t think beyonce has a hand in this, i think such a comparison is out of her control. i think this is what happens when an industry becomes comfortable with palpable, understandable, non-threatening Black women. I won’t pretend that society does not favor light-skinned women, but it also favors those who try for classiness, for respectability, for marketability—these are things it wants, and will reject those who don’t fall into line. the standard is very much higher for Black women. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;kelly was very brave. i think she understood that she was going to receive some backlash for talking about beyonce in the way that she did and even doubly so for her experiences with abuse. but her voice is very much needed and appreciate and understood. Black women experience jealousy; we are human as anyone else and we lust for things that our family/friends/acquaintances/peers have. we feel insecurity sometimes, we doubt ourselves and others. but such feelings are rarely discussed or portrayed in ways that doesn’t lose its importances to matters of “saltiness” and “cattiness.” &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;👆☝all this&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font color="#330033"&gt;Once again reblogging for the commentary. Cannot recall when or how Black American secular music became a one-trick pony. There seems to be a mindset in place that if it ain’t Beyonce and/or rap it has no place in the music landscape. I am no Beyonce hater but no I really do not understand the ‘her shine is so magnificent and bright’ that surely no one else can or should have a flourishing music career. Oh well. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50594605673</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50594605673</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 15:45:40 -0400</pubDate><category>Beyonce</category><category>Kelly Rowland</category><category>music</category><category>Black woman</category><category>ideas</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/88331adb5c418ddef6575e318cfbac5e/tumblr_mke4bd6Bu31qdz1bgo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50592632681</link><guid>http://chelebelleslair.tumblr.com/post/50592632681</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 15:15:17 -0400</pubDate><category>body</category><category>Kim Kardashian</category></item></channel></rss>
